Entirely optional

If you’re asking what to bring us

Since this question comes up a lot: your presence is the main event. But if you feel like arriving with a small peace offering, here are the kinds of things that reliably go over well.

This is not a registry, a demand, or the beginning of a dowry system. It is simply a lightly curated guide to host-friendly gestures.

Consumables We Always Like

Easy wins. No guesswork. Rarely controversial.

  • Whole coffee beans
  • Snacks and sharing foods
  • Wine you would be happy to drink yourself
  • Sweet treats

Cottage Usefuls

Practical things that somehow never stop being useful up north.

  • Bug spray
  • Sunscreen
  • Firewood bundle
  • A thoughtful grocery add-on for the weekend

Delightfully Extra

Not necessary, but always appreciated when chosen with taste and restraint.

  • A dramatic host gift
  • Champagne
  • A small bouquet of flowers
  • Any contribution that feels charming rather than burdensome

Please Don’t Bring

This section exists to protect everyone’s future selves.

  • Random decorative objects we now have to own forever
  • Novelty junk that becomes our responsibility after checkout
  • Mystery perishables with an unclear plan
  • Anything large, inconvenient, or spiritually from Winners

The Rule of Thumb

If it is easy to enjoy, easy to share, and easy to finish by the end of the weekend, you are almost certainly in the right zone.

And again: this is entirely optional. Showing up pleasant, relaxed, and ready for lake time remains the gold standard.